Remembering Steven

Steven Turman

July 9, 1976 - May 16, 2009

He brought much joy to all of us, and he quietly set an example that we will never forget. We will cherish his memory always.

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From Administrator (Memories@RememberingSteven.org)

Just to let you all know, Steven passed away today. I am devastated and will be heading to memphis as soon as I can get a flight! Pray for him!

From Chip Turman via Facebook

I will miss you brother! I love you and will see you in heaven one day!!!

From Chip Turman via Facebook

[Response] I am so sorry, Chip. He was a sweetheart of a man.

From Debbie Thompson McCrory via Facebook

I miss you already. I love you and will see you in heaven!

From Chip Turman via Facebook

Steve, you are in my thoughts....it was an honor & privilege to have been your friend & co-worker. Much love to you Turmanator...

From Christine Fox Phillips via Facebook

You were a good coworker and a great friend. Pat and I will miss you very much.

From Greg O'Keefe via Facebook

You will be missed for so many things Steve. Your talent, your humor, your patience - Peace my friend

From Linda Fisher Stacey via Facebook

I'm in shock and at a loss for words. It was so unexpected and much, much too soon. You are in my thoughts, at least I can take some consolation in my belief that you are pain-free and in a happy place. All of your loved ones and many, many friends are in my thoughts and prayers as well during this difficult time.

From Angie Herrin Overstreet via Facebook

Steve.. Always a dear friend, that will always be loved and cherised by John and I. You will be very missed, but always in our hearts and memories. So glad your mom was by your side... God Bless your sweet sweet soul.

From Sheila McGowen via Facebook

Steve, I am at a loss for words. The times we we all spent on Tuesday evenings will burn in my memory for the rest of my life. You always entrained and astonished me with your wit. It was my privilege to call you my friend. My life was more full for having known you.

From Frank Piechorowski via Facebook

[Response] Deb and I are a little speechless at this point. It hasn't sunk in yet. It doesn't seem real.

From James Jensen via Facebook

[Response] Had a talk with his mom. No one is doing very well at this moment. Steve's brother is flying into town tomorrow. I guess it's time to try to get some sleep.

From James Jensen via Facebook

[Response] So...very...sad. I spent all day with him Thursday at the surgical center, and he was doing great. I was going to cook dinner for his Mom and him, and my wife (Brenda) and I tonight. To see him lying on the table truly broke my heart.

From Richard Thomas via Facebook

I love you and I will miss you...

From Cherissa Turman via Facebook

Man he was such a fun, smart guy. I knew him for many years. We hung around and played a lot of D&D together. He was always so nice and giving. Talk about life being unfair. I'm just a bit choked up right now. More later.

From James Jensen via Facebook

Stephanie Brannon It was a privilege to be with your Mom today. I love you and will see you on the other side! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAchKt2xjsw Wish you were here Source: www.youtube.com Music Video

From Stephanie Brannon via Facebook

[Response] Nice

From Cedric Carter via Facebook

this is crazy i am having to write this ,its very sureal I knew Steven at a young age was a good kid and this is a very sad day for us all.

From Brian Chevalier via Facebook

There is absolutely no way to express how much we love you and will miss you. All of our lives are so much fuller and better for having known you. You were a beacon of kindness, love and generosity. You will always be in our hearts.

From Kimberly Seagrave Phillips via Facebook

Steven, you've been my best friend for nearly a decade and I love you. I am sorry that I never told you that in those words. I am simply crushed by what happened. This just doesn't seem real or right or fair or logical or sane. You're the smartest and funniest guy I know, and I'll miss you every day. I just don't understand it and I probably never will. I wished we had talked more about stuff that mattered... but it's so hard when you're young. I miss you already man.

From Hal Phillips via Facebook

[Response] I'm absolutely crushed myself. It's like losing my own son. I'm crying, again. as I type this.

From Richard Thomas via Facebook

[Response] Richard, you are so good. Thank you for spending 20 minutes on the phone listening to me cry not just 10 minutes ago! Crushed isn't even a strong enough word to describe what we are feeling.

From Stephanie Brannon via Facebook

[Response] Crushed, broken hearted, shocked. These word to not begin to discribe what we are feeling. I keep crying too.

From Cindi McCrory Dulin via Facebook

[Response] How can be god so cruel? Steven is such an awesome guy. I cannot digest this. I am completely heart broken!. Steven was such a terrefic guy!!.....I feel like crying

From Rohini Mv via Facebook

[Response] Buddy, I am here for you.... I can't imagine what you are feeling. Just know that he loved you and will be watching over you from heaven!!

From Donna Marsini Wessler via Facebook

I'm just shocked. I'll miss you.

From Brian Dickerson via Facebook

I am so pissed off. This is so wrong. You should NOT be DEAD. I spent 11 hours with you Thursday. I lent you my wife Thursday night, to watch over you. I don't lend my wife to just anyone! Cindi watched you Friday morning until your Mom (Sue, Love her) got into town. DAMNIT!!!!!!! I AM SO PISSED OFF!!!! I am going to miss you Dude. I loved you like my own son, and you knew it. Of that, I am certain, and I feel good. You were one of my best friends, and I will miss you greatly. Occasionally in life, you get the chance to see a shooting star, and see it's brilliance as it streaks across the sky, before it burns out. I just witnessed that in the life if Steven Turman, and it was something to behold. I've got to stop now, as I can't see though the tears, but I'll always love you Steven!

From Richard Thomas via Facebook

Steven, no words can express how empty this world will be without you! They say GOD takes the good ones and I see that,but do not understand and probably never will. You are at peace, but those of us here on earth are left with this hole especially Hal, please help us be there for him and Kim. What will my buddy do without you?? Watch over him Steven... you have left footprints on our heart.. we are all better for knowing you... We love you

From Donna Marsini Wessler via Facebook

Richard and Brenda: From the bottom of my heart, I thank you sincerely for not only being an awesome friend to Steven, but for being there with his mom and welcoming her into your home and taking care of her. I can't be there like I wish I could. Steven was like my own brother and my heart is broken. Yesterday, we lost an amazing man, a wonderful friend, an exceptional son, and an as good as they get brother. He will be greatly missed. Thanks again to you and your wife for all your kindness and support. To all of his friends: Steven's departure leaves an emptiness in our hearts, he was an awesome person. I thank everyone for their dedication to him. He really cherished your friendships. There are no words to sum up how devastating this is and not enough tears that can be shed for this loss. I am very sorry.

From Cherissa Turman via Facebook

You were one of the greatest people I have ever met. Kind hearted, sincere and always there to laugh with, joke with and enjoy the day with. I will never forget all you have done, all you could have done and all you could have been. I will always remember our time spent together and smile upon remembering it. I will always love you, HRH! and Mrrgrlglllgrl. Love, Licks and Lucky Charms, Dev

From Devorah Younger via Facebook

I keep coming back here expecting you to pop up and say "haha! just foolin! Found myself a Rez and I am gigglin at all this tomfoolery!" It isn't going to happen like that is it? I'm not going to get an email from you, or talk to you anymore am I? Who will I HRH! with and giggle about how angry folks get when we have our Murloc / HRH! fests? Who will send me emails telling me that they miss me and wish I was around more often? Who will tell me everything will be alright and to stop worrying? I wish you would come back, I miss you so much. Why did you have to go.

From Devorah Younger via Facebook

There are no words to describe the sadness, remorse, and regrets I feel. Steve has been like a member of our family since he joined Tuesday night D&D sessions; probably ten years ago. Throughout the years I’ve come to know Steve better; came to appreciate his loyalty, passion, and sensitivity. His generous spirit, and willingness to share his life and his love with someone was always apparent. Just remembering he and Ripley, and more recently, Trixie makes me cry all the harder. He cherished those two little hairy beasts; demonstrated patience and deep compassion. There will be no one who could ever fill the void he has left. I will miss seeing him, talking to him, chatting online. He was taken far too soon; there is no fairness in this world. My heart goes out to Sue. None can imagine the pain she endured yesterday or faces in the days to come. Sue, be immensely proud of Steve, he touched so many lives and left indelible marks on those who were fortunate enough to call him friend.

From Debbie Molder Jensen via Facebook

Could someone please post funeral info on here? A lot of us would like to go. RIP, Steve. :(

From Theresa Gray via Facebook

I spoke to Steven before I left on PTO. I was looking forward to connecting in Vegas. It was a shock to hear about his passing via FB I'M'. After reading the posts, tears fall not for Steven but for his friends and family. Keep the faith and I pray for you! Game on in the sky, Stevie T.

From Shaun Burnett via Facebook

Someone wake me up please. I had just read your all good text on Friday. Who am I going to blow stuff up with on the explosion holidays. Who is going to make fun of my lack of in game skills and continue to cheer me on in the same sentence. Who is going to send me funny pictures of the Rip sliding accross the floor. I dont think there is anyone out there that can fill that void. Can someone keep us updated on arrangements or if there is anything we can assist with?

From Jennifer Pugh via Facebook

You were one in a million and will be sorely missed.

From Candace L. Henderson Cole via Facebook

I just can't believe it. Thanks for taking me under your wing at Harrah's when I was fresh out of college and had no idea what I was doing. You were so humble and always answered my questions with such grace and humility. It seems like just yesterday we were shouting jabs at each other back and forth over the cube walls. I'm so glad I got to 'see' you recently via facebook. You are truly one of the most special people I have had the privelage of knowing. I am very sad but so happy to have known you.

From Melissa Thibaut Black via Facebook

This just seems completely unreal to me. Steven... a super, funny, and brilliant guy. You will truly be missed. Deepest sympathies to all of Steven's family and friends.

From Nancy Turner via Facebook

Steven you were so loved by everyone. Such a good friend to Jeff and Theresa too. Your help with algebra helped me get my degree. You were always so willing to help anybody. I will always remember your dry wit and ability to make conversation with anyone. I can't believe you'll never raid my fridge again on one of those visits with Jeff and the gang that stretched into the wee hours. Sue, my heart is broken for you and my prayers and with you and Chip and the rest of the family. Please know that his spirit will be standing beside you always. Your grief will only become bearable with time, but please know in your heart, "Steven Turman is doing fine. :)"

From Cathi Gray via Facebook

I don't think I can adequately describe the sense of loss I feel with the passing of this wonderful gentle soul. Always there when needed. Such an generous, giving and thoughful friend. The world is a little darker now that the light that was Steven is no longer in it. The only consolation for me is that I was able to call him friend.

From Pamela J Carr via Facebook

Steven was a kind friend and a wonderful person. I am grateful to have known him... and I will miss him terribly.

From Jennifer Conner Coursey via Facebook

this is sarah brannon. mr. steven turman, you were a great friend to my mom. i know everyone is going to miss you. you might not remember me, but i remember you. you were a very nice man and its sad to see you gone. :(

From Sarah Brannon via Facebook

Steven we will all miss you. I could remember like it was yesterday growing up next door to you. May god welcome you in Heaven. Gonna miss you bro.

From Kevin Chevalier via Facebook

We are not going to have a funeral, as we all know Steven would be pissed off if he made us get dressed up. We are thinking of having a get together here on Tuesday night somewhere in Memphis. I think we will also have something on Sat in Gulfport. In lieu of flowers or gifts, we ask you send donations to either Sunny Meadows Safe Haven for Dogs (901-363-7233), where he rescued Trixie, or to the Humane Society Gulfport or Center Stage Biloxi on the Coast. I will post specific info as we decide. There is still so much to sort out and it is a bit overwhelming. Thank you all for your kind words! My mother thanks you as well as she is reading them too. Chip

From Chip Turman via Facebook

Steven, I can't believe you're gone. No one had a brighter future ahead of them than you did. It's so unfair! So wrong... We will forever miss your gentle smile and your warm-hearted wit. This world is not the same without you. Family and friends, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I hope the link below will help you share your fond memories of Steven. http://www.RememberingSteven.org

From Walt Seefeld via Facebook

Damn, dude. I'm gonna miss you, as we all are. You were an awesome guy! I've only known a few people who could put me in a corner and you were one of them. You were an amazing mentor, confidant, and comedian. It's sad to see you go, however I know that you're in a better place now and I'm sure I'll see you there eventually. Take care.

From Jim Elliott via Facebook

I had known Steven for 5 years, someone who was always respected, a friend to so many. Every time a situation arose he was always regarded as someone who could maintain perspective and do what was best for everyone. One of the most unselfish individuals I have ever met. I consider myself fortunate to have known him. I will miss him.

From Matt

I haven't seen Steve in over 12 years and we just recently reconnected. I'm so greatful to have had that oppertunity to talk to you again. It really puts things in perspective. I'm going miss you.

From Thomas Gray via Facebook

I was just looking through old photos from high school on Sunday before my brother, Chris, called and confirmed the news. It's good to see from the posts on facebook that the kind and gentle soul I knew back then grew into a kind and gentle man. I'm glad I got the chance to somewhat reconnect with you recently through facebook. Your light will be missed Steven.

From Mimi (Ashby) Nanney (mimicmz@yahoo.com) in Biloxi, MS

It was great to reconnect with Steven through this sight. He was such a sweet soul in high school. It's so good to see from all the posts here that some things never change. Chip, I know you and your mom are going through a terrible time, and I thank you for keeping everyone up to date. Your brother touched so many people. His brilliant star will shine on and on.

From Mimi Ashby Nanney via Facebook

I, Like Thomas haven't seen Steven in several years. We did get a chance to reconnect recently. Steve was always a good man. He was one of the most straightforward and honest person I've ever known. He would tell you like it is whether you wanted to hear it or not. He, Jeff, Brooks and I were inseperable in High School and I will always have fond memories of my friend. We miss you Steve.

From Josh King via Facebook

I am still in shock that Steven is gone. I always joked with him that he was bragging about his height by talking to me over his cube wall (since I'm only 4'11" I had height envy). He started my workday each morning with his sweet smile and "good morning, Carol"... I will miss that every day. My heart goes out to Steven's family and devoted friends. He was truly loved by all, and we will miss him greatly.

From Carol Wolder via Facebook

Right after our first visit to Memphis, Steve responded immediately to our request for input with some well thought and pertinent questions about my thoughts on open source and buying vs building software. He also removed the answer "it depends" from the pool of possible responses :) After I responded with my early and loosely informed thoughts, he shared his far more insightful take on the subject. We were very excited when he decided to move to Vegas and I will miss the chance to get to work with him more closely, to get to know him better, and to continue our dialogue.

From Katrina (klane@harrahs.com) in Las Vegas

I'll always be convinced Steven is one of the smartest people I'll ever know. He would come into my office to explain something to me; 20 minutes and three tries later (usually with me saying - 'can you run that by me again?') I'd finally understand what he was saying - and he was of course right on every time! A great sign of an employee is when people fight to have you on their team - and I can vouch that Steven was at the top of that list. I was so excited when he returned to Harrah's and was looking forward to heading west with him. I'll miss him, and the company will truly miss his contributions.

From Mike (mharty@harrahs.com)

I had the pleasure of working with Steven a couple times and he really helped me out. Stayed late with me after a training class when I was totally lost and got me straightened out. Then when I had the chance to spend some non-work time with him, we found we had a common love for parrots and dogs and you-name-it. His gentle soul will be missed.

From Bob Rees in Reno

Steven and I had close business relations in the Harrah's EA department. He was patient in explaining technical details to me. He could always relate a technical discussion to something I understood, mainly shopping, LOL. When he returned to Harrah's, I was excited becuase he was a great knowledge source and always looking for ways to improve with an eye toward Quality. He taught me not every technology solution has to be explained with technology terms. I will miss Steven's gentle nature and wisdom.

From Cheryl Seering (seering@bigriver..net) in Memphis

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Steve's family and friends at this time of loss.

From Debbie (dspair@harrahs.com)

We will miss you, Steve!!!!

From Carlos Bolden (cbolden@harrahs.com) in Memphis

Batch to real-time. Combines. Wonderfully intellectual, challenging debates on how to make something work (without funding, of course). Wed nights in Memphis. Improv. Houses. Floods, parents, friends, families, comics, the Tick. The reason not to check email during a stop light. Warm, gentle, good heart, strong soul. My heart breaks for losing him, and selfishly mourn not being able to include him in my life here in Las Vegas.

From Patti (plee6142@yahoo.com) in Las Vegas

My favorite memories with Steven are the great times we had implementing certified messaging the TIBCO way. There was a certain dance we had to do to get everything back in synch -- we began calling it the Hokie-Pokie. I will miss the Turmanater more than words can express.

From Dorothy Butler (dkbutler2001@yahoo.com) in Memphis

Steve and I bounced ideas off each other for years. I always figured that one day he would come down and peek over my cube, smile and say "Hey got a minute for me" and present a plan that would cure world hunger and stop global warming and fix my dinner too. He would white board it out and it would be well thought through and clear and it would WORK. Then he would quietly stand up and say "Thanks for your time" I also was privileged that he was my friend and we talked on a personal level. Talking with Steve was liking drinking water - refreshing, clear, necessary. He was true to himself and was liked and respected by everyone that had the opportunity to know him. I was looking forward to him moving to Vegas because he was part of our family here. He was unique and special and will live on in all of us that were lucky enough to know him.

From Linda (lstacey@harrahs.com) in Memphis

Steve, you will be missed. I'll always remember the good times. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. We loved you but God loved you more. Well done, good and faithful servant. Cedric ps..wasssuuuuuuupppppppppp

From Cedric V. Carter Sr (cedric.cartersr@gmail.com) in Memphis, TN

Every time I was in Memphis to teach class he would always make a point to stop by and say hi. He always had that wonderful smile when you saw him. May God bless your family through this difficult time.

From Colett (cthiel@harrahs.com)

My wife and I became good friends with Steve about 10 years ago, when he started participating in our weekly D&D games. People who say he was smart have only scratched the surface. He was absolutely brilliant and often said or did things that were jaw-dropping. He was also so darn nice. He would at times bring Ripley (his bulldog) over to play with Jack (our lab mutt), and we would chat about life or play a couple video games. The last time we actually saw him was just a month ago or so when we brought Jack over to see Ripley. We met his mom and dad then. We had a great time. In fact, we had nothing but good times together. He will be one of the most missed people in my life. Why do the good die young?

From James Jensen (james.jensen1350@gmail.com) in Memphis

I always ran to Steven whenever we had PDB questions and almost always he used to give me an extremely thorough and detailed answer. He was an extremely intelligent and humble individual. He will be missed by all of us for a long long time.

From Anoop

We will miss you, Steve!!!!

From Raju Bade (rbade@harrahs.com)

To think that just over a month ago I was sad to learn that your move to Vegas had begun in earnest, that you would be leaving Memphis soon, and we were trying to figure out when would be a good time to meet up for lunch before you left. I wish we had had that lunch together...I was so looking forward to seeing you again after just chatting on facebook with you for all these months. You were a brilliant, funny, caring, generous man & I was lucky to have been your friend and co-worker. You will be greatly missed Stevie T.

From Christine Fox (cfoxvb@gmail.com) in Memphis, TN

Although I never worked with Steven directly, it sounds like he was a wonderful and heartfelt person. My thoughts and prayers go out to his beloved family and friends.

From Judi Evans (jevans@harrahs.com) in Fort Mohave, Az.

I remember joking with Steven about his hair cut one time. He will truly be missed. My prayers are with his family and friends. Adjusting to the loss caused by death takes time, but we can find comfort in knowing that nothing will separate us or our loved ones from God's plan or His love: "For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, . . . nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39).

From Iris Buggs (iris_buggs@bellsouth.net)

I was just getting to know Steven through a project that we were working on. The first conference call we attended together, he sent me this funny little comment on IM in response to something that I said on the call. After that, we chatted just about daily on IM. He was always making me laugh with his witty one-liners or a link to a "Garfield Minus Garfield" comic (that poor Jon). I was looking forward to his move to Vegas, meeting him for a drink at our neighborhood PT's, and having him join our monthly hikes. I'm sad that I won't have that opportunity to get to know him better. My thoughts and prayers are with the friends and family that knew Steven well. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

From Denise (dejohnson@harrahs.com) in Las Vegas

I am in shock disbelief that Steven is gone. His warm and gentle spirit, his incredible intellect, patience, & determination to make projects a success. Several of the projects we worked together on in the architecture group were successful due to his contribution. He will be so missed!

From Sherry Davis (davis.sherry@charter.net) in Reno, Nevada

When I moved to Harrahs account, Steven was my Technical lead on the project. When I met him, on the very first day itself I was convinced that Steve is the guy whom I can look upon. He was so humble and sweet. Be any technical question, I would always run to Steve. He inspires me and I always consider Steve as my Mentor. He used to share the details about his pets, video games, collection of modeled vintage cars... I enjoyed watching Wizard Of Oz with Steve in Orpheum theatre and glad that we had lunch at my place recently. Steve is one of the amazing and brilliant guy I ever met. Its so hard to believe that he is not around and will surely miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family.

From Haamid (haamid.shaik@gmail.com)

Steve, you will be missed. Your family will be in all of our prayers

From Tim Chapman in Memphis

Steve, we will miss you...

From Venkat (vrao@harrahs.com) in Las Vegas

I will remember Steve for how kind and thoughtful he was. My first trip to Memphis, Steve was part of a group who took me to the Cooper- Young festival. While Steve and I talked, he made me feel welcome to my new job and to Memphis. Anytime his name is mentioned, I say, “He is one of the smartest people I know.” My prayers are with his family and the people whose lives he touched.

From Robert M Laman in Las Vegas, NV

I know Steve for the last 4 years. For the first couple of weeks, I was afraid of speaking to Steve since he was always serious looking. Everything changed after I started interacting with him. His way of witty comments is very subtle and the most enjoyable. I can't believe I just spoke to him last week on his relocation to Vegas. He is one of the most brilliant person I've ever met. There are no words to explain this loss. Nothing makes sense, nothing at all. I had a remnant of belief in God before but this incident had completely wiped off everything. Steve, we'll miss you. Shiva

From Shiva in Las Vegas

My heart goes out to Steven’s family. This quiet, yet strong and brilliant individual will truly be missed and always remembered. -- Thanks for being a friend and making me laugh…Rest in peace, Steven.

From Cathy Bork (cbork@harrahs.com) in New Jersey

I first met Steven when I joined the Tuesday night D&D Crew. Steven used to inspire and entertain me with his blindingly sharp wit. From the bottom of my heart I can say that Steven was one of, if not the, most brilliant people I have ever known. I will forever miss his easy going nature, his dry wit and his general love of life. Steve, you touched the hearts and lives of everyone around you. The universe is a dimmer place now that your start has gone out. You will be deeply, deeply missed. I'll see you again on the other side... I'll bring the dice.

From Frank Piechorowski (fdpiech@gmail.com) in Memphis, TN

I still dont believe any of this. It feels as if we just discussed about a PDB issue. How much I still had to learn from him. Most of you are so lucky to have spent lots and lots of time with him. I will never forget such a remarkable person. God Bless.....

From Niju

What a loss to our team! He was so helpful and go way beyond what is necessary all the time… cheerful and full of ideas…We will miss you… RIP Steve

From Jacob P. Jacob

Steve Turman - One of the nicest persons one will ever meet in life. I will miss him a great deal. When Steve came back to Harrahs after a short break, I was one of the happiest persons to meet him again. Its tough to believe that he is not going to be around - I can never believe this. I wish all this was untrue. He is one of the most helpful persons one will ever meet.Always willing to help others, he was one of the most brilliant persons I have ever met. Its not too often you will see somebody so brilliant being sooooooooooooooooo down to earth and helpful - We will misssssssssssssssssssss you Steve.Wish you were still here.

From Kalyan (kkumar@harrahs.com) in Las Vegas

Dear Friends and Colleagues in Memphis and the surrounding areas: The Maters/Turman family and Steven's many friends invite you to celebrate his life. As Steven would have wanted us to celebrate his life rather than mourn his death, there will not be a Memorial Service held in Memphis. This event will be held at Brenda and Richard Thomas' house where we will pay tribute to Steven's friendship, kindness, contributions and accomplishments. It will be a time for colleagues and friends to remember and share stories about Steven. Light food and beverages will be served. Adult Beverages are permitted but will not be provided. In lieu of flowers, the family is asking that friends and well wishers make a donation to Sunny Meadows Safe Haven for Dogs (901-363-7233) http://www.sunnymeadows.org/, where he rescued Trixie, or to the Humane Society Gulfport or Center Stage Biloxi on the Coast. Celebration of Life for Steven Turman Tuesday, May 19th from 6-9pm 1733 N. Parkway Memphis, TN 38112

From Kimberly Seagrave Phillips via Facebook

[Response] Parking is available on N. Parkway (east bound after 6) or (west bound anytime). Overflow parking is also available at a church behind the Thomas' house. The church parking lot is at Forrest and Evergreen.

From Kimberly Seagrave Phillips via Facebook

I could not believe it when I heard that this happened. We will all miss you, Steve. Your family will be in our prayers.

From Jason Chatmon (jasontchatmon@gmail.com)

I am from a body of friends Steven made online. We meet some five years ago and I wanted pass on to his family the impact he had on our community. Steve was always a gentleman, always willing to help others, always quick with a joke, and always was a person of integrity. Though we never saw each other face to face, after five years of almost daily interaction you really get to know the 'inner person'. He will be greatly missed, and I.. we... extend our sympathies to his family. I just wanted you to know much of a positive impact he had on so many people... How time in our lives were enriched by his presence.

From Matt aka Neyland in SC

I still remember meeting you for the first time - I was walking with Richard Thomas and he kept telling me how you were one of the most brilliant people he ever knew and I was so intimidated!! But you were so friendly and a really nice person - and Richard was right when he said brilliant - you always invited me to ask questions and never made me feel like I was being a pain and for that I was grateful. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers - rest in peace...

From Teri Mitchell (teri627@yahoo.com) in Olive Branch, MS

Steven enriched all our lives both personally and professionally. He will be sadly missed and fondly remembered. I will be eternally grateful for the time spent with him.

From Brad (bkarnafel@harrahs.com) in Memphis

The shock has not yet worn off of the passing of a friend that was much too young to be taken from us. I called him the gentle giant as he was one of the kindest, sweetest men I've met in a long time. He was a wonderful friend and colleague. He will be truly missed but never forgotten by everyone that loved him. Steven will live on forever in the hearts of all of us who were lucky enough to have known him. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. Love you and will miss you Steven.

From Debbie Lynch (lebidyn@hughes.net) in Memphis

There comes a time for all of us but it's hard for me to believe Steven's came so soon. A man of exemplary kindness and unselfishness. You will be missed, and remembered.

From Lauri K. in Finland

I worked at Harrahs as a consultant from May 2006 through May 2007 and met Steve during that time. Not only was Steve bright, but he was a genuinely nice person. I know he was busy, because he was one of the technical leaders at Harrahs. Nevertheless, he patiently would juggle his work and make time to respond to my requests and work with me on my projects. Steve is gone, but not forgotten.

From Mike Blaha (blaha@computer.org) in St. Louis, MO

This Saturday night, at the Family Center at Bayou View Baptist, my mother's church, we will have a get together for anyone on the Coast who wants to attend. Starting at 6, there will be some food. Don, Sue and I will be there if you would like to come by and say hello. I am sorry at this time I cannot be more eloquent. Chip

From Chip Turman via Facebook

Steven, we met through work but our friendship grew over the last nine years to something far deeper. You were my best friend. You were my professional inspiration, my personal confidant, my sandbox for new ideas, my critic, my help, my mentor, and the guy I shared anything I found funny, sad, crazy, interesting, or dumb with. We loved so many of the same things and had our differences on tons of stuff as well. We had respect for eachother's ideas and we developed our own communication shorthand. In thinking back over the last decade, and I can only think of a handful of weekends that we DIDN'T do something together face to face or talk on the phone. I feel very diminished by your passing and my world is a lot smaller now. I miss you. P.S. "BUH!"

From Hal Phillips in Memphis, TN

Steven we only worked together a short time. However in the time we did work together my impression was that you were a nice guy and extremely intelligent. I will pray for you and your family.

From Marissa Watts (marissa.watts@autozone.com) in Memphis

Besides being a wonderful co-worker and mentor, Steve, you were my friend. I wish I had a chance to get to know you more. I always thought I had plenty of times to do so. It feels like just yesterday that you and I were debating about my 2 years old daughter and your dog which one was cleaner or cuter. I miss your voice over the cubicle wall telling me to stop going to bathroom and go back to work!

From Pat Aruntanayothin (paruntanayothin@harrahs.com) in Memphis

I feel fortunate to have known Steven over the past 5 years, but we met in a different world. I knew him as Astronaut the Shaman. He was one of the most kind, gentle, and selfless people I had ever met. We met and overcame many challenges together in this world. Though most of our interaction was within the game, I can see from the other posts on this site that he was no different in the real world. A truly remarkable person to be around. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. We will remember you always, Astro.

From Ben aka Angithil (anguirel@gmail.com) in Indiana

Richard and Brenda, thank you for hosting such a lovely gathering in honor of Steven.

From Stephanie Brannon via Facebook

Thank you to everyone who attended the Celebration of Life for Steven. The outpouring of love and kindness was wonderful and deeply appreciated. It was great to hear all the great stories regarding Steven. He had so many friends and was loved by so many people, it is truly amazing. Thank you again for making this event special for the Maters/Turman family and Steven's vast group of friends.

From Kimberly Seagrave Phillips via Facebook

Steve, You were always Steve to me.. Steven to others.. I regret I couldnt make the celebration of You, at Brenda and Richard's tonight.........We were cube mates for almost 3 years. You made my day, everyday! I remember being in a troubled relationship and walking in one day with a few marks on my arms and you wanted to kill the fella.. You were such a great, protective, attentive, compassionate friend. I remember us talking about my grow up skipper doll and you didnt believe me until I actually showed you one I got on ebay a year later.. just to prove the point. I remember feeding Toby for you when you would go out of town. and how carefully you showed me how to peel carrots, apples and nuts. I remember your beautiful artwork so proudly posted on the fridge. And it did feel like I sat next to A Guru or Confusious on the Mount, Yoda... with all the many visits you had at your cube .. for others seeking your "wisdom". All the wonderful amazing things about you, yet you were so humble, so real, so much a great friend... and to confirm all others have stated a "True" Gentle soul. Your sweetness and kindness were unique and one of a kind.... Like Cedric states, We will all see you again someday soon.. There will be a "Harrah's corner" for sure.. I'll always love you dear friend....Get some rest and I'll hang a cloud with you, soon! - Sheila

From Sheila Kirk McGowen (shemcgowen@hotmail.com) in Nashville TN

From Kimberly Phillips

I keep thinking that I imagined the news that Steven's gone because, as Astronaut the Shaman, his presence was felt everywhere. Not only was he the webmaster but he was constantly contributing to our Guild in so many ways. His help, insight, humour, levelheadedness and spirit are stamped all over our forums and were a reassuring presence in our everyday gaming lives. You'd have to be blind not to see the 'posted by Astronaut' all over the place, a testament to someone who didn't just 'hang out online', he genuinely participated, contributed, and enriched. Though our guild, Don't Panic, will have to find someone who will assume his duties, Steven/Astronaut left some very large shoes to fill. In an online escape where common courtesy and common sense aren't always so common, he was a Gentleman among men, and a true lover of both his fellow man and animals alike. I have a feeling that somewhere in the ether he is sitting back and rolling D20s with Gary Gygax. My deepest, heartfelt wishes for strength, comfort and courage go out to his family and close friends.

From Zoë Harring aka Pohtehto the P (aharring@gmail.com) in Hoffman Estates, IL

Oh my God! Bonnie from Sunny Meadows just called me this morning to let me know what had happened. I'm the one who took Trixie to Steven's home when he adopted her. I love that girl! We walked around the neighborhood for a good hour just talking. I got good, slobbery kisses from Ripley. This is just shocking & unbelievable. To Steven's family and friends - I am just SO sorry to hear this. I think I'm still in shock. God bless.

From Patricia McCarty Hurdle via Facebook

My relationship with Steve was a an experience that I cannot explain correctly with a range of emotions (although there are plenty of those) He was, and to me still is, all of the characteristics that everyone has shared so I figure I will share some of my "living life with Steve" moments. I remember, One day Steve and a few others sat at his dining room table with a spilt bag of Think 5 candy bars sampling and discussing anything from the texture, taste, make and philosophy regarding these darn candy bars, if I recall we spent 20 minutes on that one subject. I remember constant conversations regarding my lack of skill in World of Warcraft. While wielding the truth of that lack Steve would always be encouraging me to keep playing and giving me advice on how to improve. I remember him letting my mom Auto-follow him everywhere in the game because she would so easily get lost. He understood at a base level that for her it was about playing a game with friends not about trying to play the game to the best of her ability. I remember that every time I called to make sure he was going to be at 4th of July or New Years Eve, he would always ask to make sure Hal and Kimberly could come, even though he knew the answer was always yes. He was the coke and chip man! I remember him trying to teach me and mom how to shoot bottle rockets out of our hands...needless to say we never got the knack of it but we sure did get some good laughs from trying. I remember sharing the joy of his dog Ripley when he first got her. He was worried about bringing her out cause of my cats and her lack of consistant bathroom skills. She came out and did just fine. Although, we have discovered that fireworks are just not her thing. If you have never watched them, you can really feel Steve's joy of Ripley through his video's posted on youtube. I remember my last conversation with him On Sunday the 10th, after watching the new Star Trek movie. I think it was clear that there will indeed be more Star Trek movies. I believe Hal would agree, but I dont think Steve would lol. I would have to say that my only regret was never getting to meet his family (although I did last night!). For there is only one way that he could have gotten the beautifully engineered set of characteristics that we all knew in him. Thank you Steve for sharing all that you are with my family. We are honored and are better people as a result. I'm sure that after you get some rest He will have you pondering the mysteries of something that has been created for our enjoyment.

From Jennifer Pugh (ladypugh@comcast.net) in Olive Branch MS

Sue and Don Maters (Steven’s Mom and Step-Dad) and Chip and Cherissa Turman (Steven's Big Brother and Sister in-law) wanted me to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you for the love and support displayed during this difficult time. They are eternally grateful for all the kind words and time taken out of busy schedules to share with them how Steven touched your lives and what he meant to each of you. Additionally they wanted me to add that Steven respected and loved all of his friends and his life was richer having known each of you and to thank you for being his friend.

From Brenda Thomas via Facebook

In lieu off flowers, we are asking for donations and well wishes to Steven's favorite charitable causes, sunnymeadows.org in Memphis, Center Stage Theater in Biloxi, and Humane Society in Gulfport. Thank you. Chip

From Chip Turman via Facebook

I just found out... I'm in tears now. I can't say I knew him TOO well, but I talked to him and thought he was really awesome. I'll miss Steven/Astro :(

From Christina Riser via Facebook

First weekend without you man.... It is rough! Want to say BUH????????????

From Kimberly Seagrave Phillips via Facebook

Just thinking about you! I miss you.

From Chip Turman via Facebook

I can't believe we were just talking about you moving, I just didn't know it was to a higher place, God was watching you all along. I remember we had the same interest in trucks, but I liked your color better. Rest in Peace thanks for being a co-worker and friend

From valerie beason (beasonvalerie@yahoo.com) in memphis, Tn shelby

"What's your favorite planet?...Mine's the Sun." and "If the moon was made of bbq spare ribs would ya eat it? Hell i would, I'd have seconds." Watched and thought of you!

From Chip Turman via Facebook

July 9th, 1976 - May 16th, 2009. You will be missed!!! Love you! -Chip

From Chip Turman via Facebook

[Response] Thinking about you and your mom and the rest of the family every day. Stand strong by Sue!

From Cathi Gray via Facebook

[Response] missed but not forgotten ...he is with you all and will be forever

From Charles Davis via Facebook

[Response] You and your family are in my prayers.

From Tania M. Tellier-Brooks via Facebook

[Response] Missed... I will never look at whack-a-mole the same way.

From Christina Riser via Facebook

[Response] many hugs for you guys!

From Jennifer Pugh via Facebook

I am in shock to hear of Steven's passing - the Turman family is in my thoughts and prayers...

From Josh Thompson via Facebook

Wow, very sad to hear about Steven passing on, he was a fun foil and a really decent person. And he had a cool dog. He will be missed.

From bob maccione

I can't walk through the house without thinking of you. I keep looking at that straight back, striped chair in the living room. You were the only person who ever sat in it. It is too tall for me; my feet don't touch the floor. It never occurred to me before that you probably liked it. Everything else here is so close to the floor (short people).

From Debbie Molder Jensen via Facebook

I'll be praying for you in the coming days. I miss ya big fella.

From Brooks Grigson via Facebook

Hm... I am shocked to hear that Steven is no more. It was only very short period I had a chance to work with him. I felt sorry when he left Hilton to go back to Harrahs but at least I was hoping he will get to do what he liked to do with his career. It is so unfortunate that God had different plans for him.... Still can't believe what happened.

From DP Koka in Memphis, TN

I never worked directly with Steve, but he would always find time to stop and say something whenever our paths crossed. And in those brief moments, I sensed his intelligence, kindness, and caring for others. After reading through the comments of those who had the privileged of knowing Steve better than I, he was the man he appeared to be. My prayers go out to all during this time of sorrow.

From Jerry Moffett (jerrymoffett@comcast.net) in Memphis

Many of us in Las Veags knew Steven and were unable to join his friends in Memphis for the memorial service. Please join us for an informal gathering to share stories & raise a glass in his honor. Winchell's on Warm Springs road - 5-7pm.

From Patti Lee (plee6142@yahoo.com) in Las Vegas

Wed 5/27 5pm-7pm at Winchell's on Warm Springs & Gillepsie -- Las Vegas NV. Please join us for an informal gathering to share stories & raise a glass in his honor.

From Patti Lee (plee6142@yahoo.com)

Thinking of you!

From Chip Turman via Facebook

I miss you!!! When I got back from memphis I opened an email from you saying "I'll talk to you Monday the 18th when I get back" I cried for a half hour... :(

From Donna Marsini Wessler via Facebook

Mrs.sue and chip, I am so sorry to hear about Steven. Although I have not spoke with him in years, I have thougt of him often. We had some great times together growing up. You are in my thoughts and prayers

From Vicky Faulkner Dorathy (vdorathy@bellsouth.net)

I can see Steven, if he could read all of this, standing with his arms slightly spread, his palms turned out, saying brightly "What's up with that?"

From Richard Thomas (rtinmem@gmail.com) in Memphis

You are always on my mind. I can hear you making a pun on that...probably singing....I miss you

From Cherissa Turman via Facebook

I'm trying, again, to add my thoughts to the many glowing reflections about my dear nephew, Steven Turman. I am Sue's older sister and have know this exceptional young man since his infancy. He has truly brought delight to all who knew him. He always remembbered us at Christmas with a "happy." Once I asked him to help me with a computor problem (I am computor challenged!), and he began explaining it to me. He must have gotten a kick out of my totally dazed expression. I didn't have a clue as to what he was saying. Sue called him her gentle giant and she is so heartbroken as is all the family. It seems so sureal. Seven, so many people feel your loss. See you in heaven! Much love Aunt Meralyn.

From Meralyn Peterson in Clinton, Mississippi

I worked with Steven's Mom, Sue, in Gautier, MS and she talked about him frequently. I didn't know him face-to-face, but I felt I 'knew' him through his mother. I am so thankful for all his friends who are helping Sue and each other cope with this tragic loss.

From Lana Smith (spazcat1958@bellsouth.net) in Ocean Springs MS

I remember the day you were born! Cannot belive you left before your Mother or me. It is not suppose to be that way. My heart knows though, that our Father sends angels to walk and be among us for a reason, and after reading the many thoughts here, I see that Steven was one of those angels. He touched so many of you and was waiting at the door to walk a ways with many of you. We love you Steven and will never forget you! God bless you Sue and Chip my thoughts are with you.

From Debbie Wolf (parbabie@yahoo.com) in Diamondhead, Ms

I prayed to my grandpa at his funeral last week and told him to go find you for some good conversation. I'm sure you guys are having some great discussions and I think I may be jealous! Love ya

From Jennifer (ladypugh@comcast.net) in MS

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